Test Detecting Gaslighting in the Environment

QUESTION 1: What is a clear internal warning sign of gaslighting?

That the victim makes risky decisions without thinking
That the victim mentally checks every decision against the manipulator's "reality"
That the victim becomes more independent
That the victim ignores the opinions of others

Lack of total communication
Excessive public displays of affection
Joint vacation planning
Discrepancy between words and actions, accompanied by outright denial of such discrepancy

With a practical and fair solution
With the manipulator asking for forgiveness
With the victim feeling guilty for someone else's problem or doubting his or her sanity
With an uncomfortable but respectful silence