Gestures of Evaluation and Boredom

Interest (Hand on cheek, index finger up).

When a listener is actively processing information, he or she often uses evaluative gestures involving the hand on the face.

The classic positive evaluation signal occurs when the listener rests the hand on the cheek.

Typically, the index finger rests casually on the cheek and points upward, while the thumb may rest under the jaw.

This is a sign that the person is absorbed, interested and receptive to the content of the speech. It is a gesture of genuine interest and active evaluation.

Boredom (Palm holding chin)

The problem arises when this sign of interest is transformed into a sign of boredom. The transition is subtle but clear.

When interest disappears and boredom begins to set in, the head begins to feel "heavy."

The index finger pointing upward is no longer sufficient support, and the person will look for a more solid one.

The gesture changes: the base of the palm (the heel of the hand) will move under the chin to support the full weight of the head.

This is an unmistakable sign that you have lost your audience. Your interlocutor is no longer evaluating, just struggling to stay awake.

Seduction (Presenting the face)

There is a variation of this gesture, used mainly by women to show interest in a man. It is the gesture of "presenting the face".

The person rests the chin on the palms or backs of both hands, with the elbows on the table.

By doing this, the woman is showing that she is completely focused on the conversation and, at the same time, is framing and presenting her face for the man to admire.

This is a clear sign of romantic interest. If this is accompanied by dilated pupils and a genuine smile, it is a very strong signal.

This is the ideal time for the other person to reciprocate with an open posture and a compliment.

Summary

When a listener is actively processing information, he or she often uses evaluative gestures involving the hand to the face.

The classic positive evaluation signal occurs when the listener rests the hand on the cheek, with the index finger resting and pointing upward.

The problem arises when interest wanes and boredom sets in. The head begins to feel "heavy". The person will use the base of the palm under the chin to support all the weight.