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QUESTION 1: WHAT IS NECESSARY TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT THE ADOLESCENT AGE?

There is always a stage of life that we do not manage to fully control during the upbringing of our children, and it is normal, perfection does not exist
Young people end up thanking parents once they see themselves in the same place in life, as parents
We come to an uncertainty about how to proceed when they begin to show patterns of adult independence near the age of majority
It is important to understand for their age that they are still in the process of identifying their tastes and will go out and take from the world whatever interests them

As part of our mission as parents, which is to assist them when necessary, we must not neglect their steps or at least keep track of the identity profiles that make up their preferences
This is a difficult journey for both parties as adolescents pursue an attitudinal ideal and adults need to maintain rules within the home

For young people, adolescence involves processes of biological and psychological change in which they experience a sense of non-conformity with reality
During the search for their identity, they manifest a rebellious attitude that drives them to find their own ways of understanding the world
The first setback we face when we have rebellious youth is disinterest in our rules and boundaries
In this transition, parents must understand that it is their moment to re-signify the codes learned during childhood in order to form the most important part of their character through interaction

The one that most affects the family relationship is the lack of communicative attention where they position us at a certain distance from their personal interests
They may come to think that we do not know their urgent problems, taking refuge in their own vision and maintaining an inflexibly hermetic criterion
One of the worst reactions is the consumption of alcoholic beverages and drugs, negatively modifying their character and attitude towards lack of responsibility and respect for coexistence at home
They tend to be reserved for fear of exposing their inner world in matters such as sexuality or personal image

We understand that our children want to take their own direction, but we need to remain leaders
We must let them know their place in the home as long as they agree to abide by our rules and standards of conduct
Many parents end up giving in and neglecting the reins of home order when youngsters show up inappropriately
It is natural to want to please teenagers in order to achieve a better family relationship, but as parents we can not lose our authority, they need to maintain the status of respect

The education of a teenager is difficult and even more so if they are in a defensive attitude, a good way to try to deal with these problems as parents is to approach them to rebuild a relationship with them
We can begin to dissipate bad energies by establishing links between what they like to do
If we constantly insist on them, they may feel uncomfortable with excessive concern
Our young people need confidence to accept the link of help that we offer them where they can expose a dialogue with their concerns and ours