Eliminate bad experiences

The bad experiences we suffer tend to accompany us throughout the years, conditioning the way we project ourselves and take on new challenges. Many negative experiences become truly traumatic and act as obstacles to our development. Eliminating bad experiences is fundamental when it comes to taking on new challenges and undertaking new actions.

During this guide we will focus on some elementary recommendations to erase our negative experiences and focus on what we want to achieve. In such a way that we learn to differentiate the contexts and situations we have dealt with in the past and those that are part of the present.

You are no longer the same person

The first thing you must understand and accept is that the person who suffered a rejection or went through an unpleasant situation is no longer what you are today. People develop and our subconscious is prepared to learn from every setback. You cannot judge yourself by experiences you have suffered in the past, these are part of a reality that no longer exists and to which you do not belong. Accepting the development and evolution of the human being is part of knowing how to forgive yourself and understand that nothing that happened in the past has to condition your future.

Unfortunately, bad experiences are more easily remembered than good ones. If you take a minute to think about it, you will surely be able to remember many occasions where things did go well, where your results were excellent and you achieved what you wanted. The fact of being burdened with a traumatic experience cannot be an excuse to stop trying.

The context is not the same

No matter how similar a current situation may seem to you to one that happened years ago, the context is no longer the same. If a few years ago you tried to start a business and ended up losing money without achieving any positive result, you must understand that thinking that the same thing will happen this time is like believing that by slipping one day on your way home, you will slip every time you go down the same road. It is absurd to assume that one failed attempt determines your ability to succeed.

Try to remember the scenario in which you failed and compare it to the one you are in now. Surely you are not the same age, you do not have the same experience, it is not the same business, you do not have the same partners. So nothing indicates that the outcome will be the same. Each challenge is a new opportunity to correct past mistakes and you must take advantage of them and enjoy them while respecting the independence that exists between them. Just as your past successes are no guarantee of your future successes, neither is p