The Four Phases of Business Interaction

Social Phase: Distance and distrust

Every business interaction, whether it's a networking meeting, a sales presentation or a request for a raise, usually begins in a Social Phase. This initial stage is characterized by uncertainty.

Roles and objectives are not yet clearly defined, which may generate some distrust or wariness between the parties.

Body language tends to be more reserved, perhaps a bit distant or formal, as people are eva luating each other and determining the nature of the interaction.

Key nonverbal cues in this phase are a lack of immediate warmth and a general tentative attitude.

Comfort Phase: Physical relaxation and specific subject matter.

The transition from the Social Phase to the Comfort Phase occurs when common ground is established, the purpose of the meeting is clarified, or both parties feel that the interaction can be beneficial.

This change is evidenced by a noticeable physical relaxation in body language.

Postures become less rigid, there may be more smiles, and the overall atmosphere feels less tense.

In addition, the conversation focuses on a more specific topic, and there is greater clarity about the purpose of the interaction.

In this phase, people are more willing to listen and begin to dig deeper into the main issue.

Connection Phase: Commitment, Engagement and Mutual Goal

Once comfort has been established, the interaction moves into the Connection Phase.

This is where you really build the relationship and explore the details of the topic at hand (potential collaborations, product features, merits for a raise, etc.).

Body language shows greater commitment and involvement on both sides: there may be more forward leaning, more animated gestures and more sustained eye contact.

Initial "barriers" disappear as a sense of mutual goal or shared understanding emerges.

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