How does non-verbal communication influence the relationship?

Non-verbal communication is everything we transmit through our body, as opposed to what we say with words. It involves posture, gestures, facial expressions, gaze and tone of voice, among other things. Often, nonverbal communication is more eloquent than verbal communication and can significantly influence a couple's relationship.

Nonverbal communication is an essential part of couple communication, as it is used to express emotions, feelings and attitudes. In fact, it is estimated that over 90% of our communication is nonverbal. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to both what is said and what is expressed through body language.

Partner perception: Nonverbal communication can influence a partner's perception of each other. For example, if a person has crossed arms and a closed facial expression, it may be interpreted as being uncomfortable or defensive. If a person has an upright posture and a smile on his or her face, it may be interpreted as relaxed and receptive. Therefore, nonverbal communication can be a powerful tool for communicating how we feel and how we perceive the other person.

Attraction and desire: In a couple's relationship, nonverbal communication can also influence attraction and desire. For example, physical proximity, direct gaze, eye contact and physical contact can increase attraction and intimacy in the relationship. On the other hand, lack of eye contact, physical distance and closed body language can decrease attraction and intimacy.

Trust: In addition, nonverbal communication can also influence the level of trust in the relationship. If a person is open and honest through body language, it can convey a message of trust and honesty. Conversely, if a person avoids eye contact or is closed and defensive, it can convey a message of distrust or dishonesty.

Detecting emotional needs: Nonverbal communication can also be a valuable tool for detecting a partner's emotional needs. For example, if a person has a sad or downcast expression, it may indicate that he or she is going through a difficult time. If a person appears anxious or stressed, it may indicate that he or she needs emotional support. Therefore, paying attention to nonverbal communication can help us detect a partner's needs and respond effectively.

On the other hand, inattention to nonverbal communication can be detrimental to the relationship. For example, if a person ignores his or her partner's closed posture and tense gestures, it can be interpreted that he or she does not care how he or she feels or is not paying attention. This can lead to frustration and a lack of understanding between the couple.