What to avoid in an acceptance speech

Acceptance speeches are quite complex. The speaker has a limited amount of time to deliver a series of ideas that revolve around his or her work, accomplishments and appreciation for those who are honoring him or her.

For many people, being the center of attention during a recognition can be very overwhelming. The nerves and embarrassment of being exposed to such a scenario sometimes work against us, causing us to behave contrary to our desires or say things that end up being detrimental to our image.

In order to go deeper into the characteristics and peculiarities of the acceptance speech, we will be developing this session, where we will analyze some of the behaviors that you should avoid when presenting a speech of this type.

Do not demerit your achievements: There is a narrow line between being humble and demerit. It is normal that in the face of recognition you may be tempted to diminish your image out of embarrassment or fear of being considered arrogant. You must know how to balance very well the way you express yourself, since showing humility does not mean not accepting the merits you are being recognized for.

When someone is honored, there will always be people who consider that this tribute is not fair, either out of envy or because they believe that they meet better requirements to obtain the award. Do not join the side of those who are demeriting you, what you have achieved is the result of your abilities and efforts.

Do not be selfish: The scenario where public awards are usually developed, usually have a background of logistical work of many people. These types of events are scheduled in advance and depending on the magnitude of the event, brands, companies or investors may be involved.

Although a recognition of this type is a favorable scenario to develop important connections, you must show that you do not want to take over all the effort of others by turning the attention on your own image. Assess what the situation is, how the event is unfolding, and give space to those you feel deserve it.

If you are exhibiting in a theater, for example, perhaps you can invite someone who in one way or another has participated in your achievements to say a few words or receive part of the tribute. This kind of behavior plays to your image, it shows that you appreciate the space you have been given but that you don't need to absorb all the attention to feel good about yourself.

Respect the schedule: This recommendation will depend on the type of event being held to award recognition. As a general rule, presentations related to a tribute, usually have a strict schedule where the times and ways for each of the stages of the same are stipulated.

Do not believe that just because you are being honored, it means you can do whatever you want. Show respect for the work of others, adapting your speech to the times and ways that are required of you. If you are asked to avoid touching on any topic during your presentation, stick to the rules or do not agree to attend.

Keep in mind that it is not only your image that is at stake when you attend an award ceremony, but also that of the organizers and people who share the stage with you. Be grateful to those who have given you the space to make your efforts known, even though you are the honoree you are not the one running the event. That said, take your place with humility and abide by the rules so that you convey that you are a trustworthy person.