1st QUESTION: What is the therapist's recommendation in the face of constant technical precisions of an obsessive person?

2nd QUESTION: How can one reframe a rigid person's need for control?

Appealing to each other's empathy without confronting behavioral impacts
Empathic confrontation by validating suffering and pointing out impact of the behavior
Allowing the patient to lead the session without limits
Avoid any mention of impact on the partner

Provoke guilt to force change
To motivate change by showing that if he modifies his behavior he will get what he desires
Always highlight the inferiority of the other
Eliminating consequences to reward the narcissistic patient