Test Expressing what we feel

QUESTION 1: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN TO RECOGNIZE THEMSELVES?

We live in a world that has ignored for a long time the inner human emotional universe and has only paid attention to the external
Today we can talk openly about topics such as emotional intelligence, the aspects derived from it and its importance in building healthy interpersonal relationships
Opening up personal emotionality with our children is the best way to teach them to recognize themselves as human beings and to project their actions consciously
The communicative thread with them is the most precious asset we obtain when we have built, both parents and children, value in the family relationship

While it is important to provide an education where there are rules for learning and homework, the child also needs emotional stimulation that would be difficult to find in any other environment outside the home
All contexts can be favorable for learning, but the family is the first school where the first knowledge is absorbed

When we talk to our children we must avoid an attitude that can trigger misunderstanding, i.e. we need a positive and optimistic outlook that brings them interest
Openly showing our love for them is vital to help build their self-esteem
Acknowledging and encouraging the good deeds of our young people, letting them know how pleased we are with them, can surely encourage them to maintain a better attitude in the face of stressful events
Children have a high level of perception when it comes to emotions, so we must know that an incorrect attitude towards them can leave them a lot to think about and modify their character

The most important thing when we address the young people at home is to be able to understand our parenting as a privilege and not as a responsibility
We have chosen to be parents, although sometimes it comes as a surprise and this must represent a positive fact in our lives, therefore it is our mission to give them everything they need for their formation
Failure to recognize parenthood as a privilege can have consequences that are later reflected in the child's personality and beliefs, they notice when they lack the affection and dedication they are entitled to
Often the big problem lies in not being sufficiently prepared to assume parenthood and its responsibility, resisting to take on the positive aspects of this stage of life that are so important for us

A child does not come into the world by his or her own means, they come from a father and a mother, the conscious fruit of both of them forming a family
Both the material and emotional burden comes from both sources, therefore, the main thing in order to raise and educate a child correctly is the active participation of both parents in this task
Teamwork is beneficial for our children when they receive the harmonious and loving balance that parents should ensure at home
It is wrong to leave all the work to one of us because the development of the family empathy that we wish to instill in the most important member of the household may be affected by the absence and emptiness of one of us

A child's needs are really simple and have to do with knowing that they have an important place
We can instill the bond of trust when we correctly fulfill the promises we make
Promises are rewards for children's good behavior and are expected by the children as a relevant event in their lives
They benefit and are excited to know that their good behavior leads to stimuli that satisfy their personal emotionality

Through the ways we use to communicate perosnal feelings to our children, in an open way we can go back to the past and the relationship with our parents
We take reference from everything we learned as children, from the path to adulthood and how this influenced us to become what we are today
No matter what the parental relationship has been, we always have the idea and the goal to give our best, to reach even deeper than they reached with us
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The main rule to foster in our young people a healthy and happy emotionality is to communicate to them the idea of unconditional love and acceptance
Telling them that we accept them with their personal characteristics is a gratification that every child needs to hear from their parents, it contributes to strengthen their security in their actions without fear of committing any mistake
Some young people often take a different path than what their parents desire and in these cases, the best way to support them is to show them love and respect for their decisions
If we want to have a strong and lasting bond with our children we can start by avoiding opposing their personal aspirations, the way to remain present in their lives is by being more