The list of qualities of the people you want in your life

Defining Your Ideal Circle. The Power of Clarity

One of the final and most important exercises in this course is an act of deep introspection about our relationships.

It consists of taking the time to define, as clearly as possible, the qualities we look for in the people with whom we choose to share our lives.

It's not about creating a list of superficial requirements such as attractiveness or intelligence.

But rather about identifying the character traits and fundamental values ​​that are truly important to us.

What do you value most in a friend, a partner, a colleague? Write down everything that comes to mind, without censorship.

Perhaps you value honesty, loyalty, a sense of humor, passion, humility, or authenticity.

The Mirror of Expectations. Do You Offer What You're Looking For?

Once you have your list, comes the most revealing step.

Look at it carefully and ask yourself a crucial, honest question: "To what extent do I possess these same qualities?"

This is the mirror of expectations. We often expect qualities from others that we haven't cultivated ourselves.

We want honesty, but sometimes we aren't completely sincere. We seek loyalty, but we can fail in our commitment.

This reflection is not aimed at self-criticism, but at consistency. It reminds us that, in the realm of relationships, we attract what we are.

If we want to surround ourselves with passionate, honest, and loyal people, the first step is to embody those qualities ourselves.

Consistency as the Foundation of Genuine Attraction

Being assertive in our relationships is not just about knowing who to say "no" to, but, more importantly,