Gestures of power and precision

The bell tower or rhombus with the hands

When a speaker does not know what to do with his hands in a moment of pause or listening, the ideal technical solution is to adopt the position of the "pyramid", "rhombus" or "bell tower".

This gesture consists of joining the fingertips of both hands, forming a triangle, generally at the level of the abdomen or lower chest.

This configuration is widely used in politics and business because it communicates balance, precision and structured thinking.

Connecting the hands in this way avoids interlocking fingers (which can indicate anxiety or frustration) and projects an image of coherence between the logical and emotional hemispheres.

It is an active "resting position" that conveys to the audience that the speaker is focused, calm and in control of his or her mental faculties.

In addition, it serves as a starting and return point for any other gesture, avoiding erratic movements.

The accusing finger vs. palm pointing

The act of pointing is common in public speaking to direct attention, but the way it is executed radically changes the message.

Using the extended index finger to point at someone in the audience or to emphasize a fact is universally perceived as an aggressive, authoritarian and accusatory gesture ("accusing finger").

It evokes scoldings or impositions, generating rejection or forced submission in the receiver.

The technical and diplomatic alternative is to point using the open hand, with the palm slightly upward or sideways, as if offering something or giving friendly guidance.

This gesture maintains the deictic function (indicating direction or person) but removes the charge of aggressiveness.

Introducing a guest or highlighting a slide with an open palm conveys respect, invitation and professionalism, transforming a command into a welcome suggestion.

Summary

The steeple or diamond position communicates balance and structured thinking. Joining fingertips projects intellectual coherence, being a very effective technique in political and business environments.

It works as an active resting position conveying concentration and mental control. Avoid interlacing fingers, a gesture associated with anxiety, serving as a starting point for emphasis.

Pointing with the index finger is aggressive and accusatory, provoking rejection. The technical alternative is to use an open hand with palm up, conveying respect and professional invitation.