The impostor syndrome and comparison

Managing the fear of "not knowing it all".

Impostor syndrome in public speaking manifests itself through the distressing belief that one is not qualified enough to speak on a topic, or the fear of being "outed" as a fraud in the face of a difficult question.

This fear often paralyzes even experienced professionals, leading them to believe that they need to read "one more book" or have "one more degree" before they feel legitimate to present.

To manage this, it is essential to change the perspective on the role of the speaker. You don't need to be the world's encyclopedia on a subject to speak on it.

The speaker's value lies in his or her unique perspective, specific expertise and ability to synthesize information for that particular audience. In the face of fear of difficult questions, honesty is the best tool.

Confidently admitting, "I don't have that specific piece of information right now, but I'll look into it and get back to you" is a sign of professionalism, not incompetence. Legitimacy stems from preparation and honesty, not omniscience.

The danger of comparing yourself to experienced speakers.

Comparison is a common trap. When embarking on the path of public speaking, it is common to measure one's own performance against that of elite communicators, veteran television hosts, or famous speakers who have been in the business for decades.

This comparison is unfair and destructive, as it contrasts one's own "chapter 1" with someone else's "chapter 20."

Attempting to imitate another speaker's style often results in a stilted and inauthentic performance.

Each person has a natural communicative style: some are dynamic and energetic, others are leisurely and reflective. Both styles can be equally effective.

The goal is not to become a copy of an external reference, but to develop the best version of yourself.

By focusing on personal progress - comparing the current presentation to the previous one, not to that of a third party - you build solid confidence based on real, measurable growth, fostering a genuine voice of your own.

Summary

Imposter syndrome arises from doubting one's professional qualifications. This paralyzing fear ignores that value lies in one's unique personal perspective.

Honesty is the best tool when faced with difficult or unfamiliar questions. Admitting a lack of specific information projects professionalism and real legitimacy to any audience.

Comparing yourself to experienced speakers is unfair and destructive to learning. The goal is to develop your own genuine style based on individual progress.