Keys to being a better person in relationships

The quality of our interpersonal relationships depends largely on who we are as individuals.

Being a "fantastic" or exceptional person not only enriches one's life. It also attracts and fosters higher quality relationships.

A formula proposed by Viktor Frankl offers valuable insight into the components that contribute to being a better person.

Personal Value Formula: (C+H) x A

The formula is structured as: (Knowledge + Skills) x Attitude. This means that knowledge and skills add value to a person.

But it is the attitude or way of being that multiplies that value, having a much greater impact on how we are perceived and the quality of our interactions.

Knowledge (C)

People like and value those individuals who are knowledgeable, cultured and intelligent, and with whom interesting and nurturing conversations can be had.

A mutual exchange of experiences, new visions and knowledge enriches relationships.

The more cultured and intelligent a person is, the more interesting he or she becomes to others.

Skills (H)

Skills, whether innate or developed, also add to a person's attractiveness and interest.

This may include being good at a profession (an excellent doctor, psychologist, cook), having artistic talents (playing an instrument, dancing) or practical skills (being good with your hands, fixing things).

People with interesting hobbies and developed skills are more likable and admirable.

Attitude (A) - The Multiplying Factor

Although knowledge and skills add up, it is the attitude or way of being that truly multiplies a person's value and determines how he or she will be remembered, loved and appreciated.

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