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The automotivation - life coaching
Self-motivation is a skill that has a great impact on our personal development, since it allows us to motivate ourselves in order to achieve the goals we have set for ourselves. People who are capable of self-motivation are much more productive and maintain better control of their emotions and the environment with which they interact.
When we start a business or any personal project, we look for external sources to obtain the necessary energy to undertake the initial actions. It happens that this energy disappears over time, once we have to face the problems that arise. The difference between those who are self-motivated and those who are not, is that the former do not need to look for more external sources to maintain their mood and energy, since they are clear about their goals, and these are enough to provide that extra that will motivate them to work hard to achieve them.
In this guide, we will share some fundamental suggestions so that you can incorporate self-motivation into your daily routine.
The most important thing when it comes to obtaining any result is to be well focused on what we want to achieve. Many of us want success, personal satisfaction, financial security, among other things, but these alone are not clear goals or objectives. If you want financial stability, maybe your goal is to have your own business that allows you to generate enough income to cover your expenses. In addition, if you know that your passion is sports, a gym may make sense with your ambitions. Focus then on that gym you want to create, visualize your goal and work on achieving it.
Having clear goals will allow you to motivate yourself more easily. It is important that you do not act randomly, everything you do should have a sense and should lead you towards the fulfillment of the goal you have set. This will keep you focused on the path and it will be much easier to motivate you in the face of failures if you know where you are going.
Trying is not failing, it changes the vision you have about failure. The fact of performing a certain action does not guarantee that you will get the desired result, but not getting the desired result does not mean that it is a bad result or a failure. The only failure is not getting any result, and this only happens to people who do not act.
If things did not go as you expected, you must learn from the mistake. Ask yourself: Why didn't it go well? How can I improve it? What should I change so that the next attempt is closer to success? These are questions you should ask yourself. In this way, the attempt will have been worthwhile, because it will be an experiment from which you will learn. You will increase your experience, since experience is just that: having gone through and learned from situations.
Once you manage to modify your view of failure, it will not affect you so much when you do not get what you want the first time. You will know that it is a natural part of the road to success, and that this should not demotivate you. On the contrary, because now you are a much more experienced person who knows more about your business and how not to act next time. This is what self-motivation is all about: not needing to find encouragement outside, because everything you need to motivate you already has it in yourself. Your dreams, clear goals and acquired experience are more than enough to keep you on track even if things don't go as expected. Focus more on the rewards and less on the difficulties.
