Look ahead

We have already spent too much time living in the past, asleep in the longing for what we could not solve or the courage we lacked to make an important decision that we regret. All these thought processes stuck in yesterday are natural, but what is beyond that? Inevitably we fall backwards or forwards with the melancholy of the past or the anxiety of the future. There are several factors that prevent us from seeing that what is next to us is what we can still do and not what we did. As part of the events of life we face circumstances that end up marking our personality, anyway we have a good part to go, it is advisable to worry about our next experience, that goal that we have not yet reached.

Traumatic events.

Most of the traumatic events we experience do not come with the intention of creating a trauma, we are the ones who make them traumatic through the load of unconscious drama that we see in things. Among the first steps to overcome them and focus on what really matters is to accept the change that any type of event brings to our life. We know that deep down we are submerged in a great uncertainty, where does this change lead us to? The best thing, seen from a positive point of view, is that we end up modifying our habits in order to find ourselves in an evolution of our current state. As we know, the traumas provoked by changes remain a little, but the short-term objective is to get out of them as unscathed as possible, therefore it is in vain that we want to resist them; it is better not to set a time limit to overcome them, since they will dissolve little by little.

Fear and anxiety.

Suppose we have an enterprise in a business area, and we intend to be the best and in fact we are achieving it, suddenly a new competitor appears with a better service, with better offers and better image, what would we do? Instantly loose ends and continue forward; many times the most relevant thing for the business is the permanence in time and so it happens with the emotional life, to offer security and guarantees of value. we would enter in an attack of panic and coalition, when we feel overcome. We come to realize for a moment that we have been surpassed and we would begin to experience fear and anxiety, imagining that we could be completely displaced from the market. But I remind you that, in addition to their individual offers, everyone has something individual, value to contribute, not only to the business but also to the customer as the main source. It would remain for us to analyze again the competition and highlight what makes us different from them; it is the time to tie up.

Inferiority issues.

Faced with exposure to the real world, everyone has important contributions to make, advantages and disadvantages. Progress is evidenced gradually and without competition we cannot notice how much we have advanced. We probably feel inferiority problems in the face of our competition, because there is too much of it or because its impact is greater than ours and we decide to abandon the race, but what is necessary at this time is persistence. To overcome inferiority problems, or at least not to take it so personal, we focus on the fact that there is always competition, some are more advanced and others more behind, we all have a time of development, no matter if you are young or an expert. We all have the opportunity to prove our skills without self-deprecating our attempt.

Leadership.

A characteristic of entrepreneurs and especially of a coach is the ability to lead. We want to take the reins of our future, we want to lead us to the peak of our performance both in our work and as human beings, and stimulating this area of our life can greatly enhance our growth. To